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The Law of Kindness – Printable

Guest post from Imperfect Homemaker contributor Andrea.

The Lord has been dealing with me lately about the words I use and the way I speak to my family members. When I get frustrated I often start to tear others down rather than build them up.  I express my frustration in my words and my tone.  But that is not how the virtuous woman speaks.

Proverbs 31:26 says, “She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.”

Do you know what a law is?  It may be defined in several ways:
  1. The system of rules that a particular country or community recognizes as regulating the actions of its members and may enforce by the imposition of penalties.
  2. A statement of fact, deduced from observation, to the effect that a particular natural or scientific phenomenon always occurs if certain conditions are present.

Law.  Something that regulates the actions (or words) of its members.  Something that always occurs if certain conditions are present.  When the virtuous woman opens her mouth, it is always kindness that comes forth.  When she speaks, wisdom and kindness always govern her words.  There is no deviation.  It is a fact, and others can observe it.  Her words are kind.  That is how I want to speak.  I want others to know that when Andrea talks, it will always be kind and uplifting.  I want my children to know, by observation, that Mommy will always speak to them with love and kindness – no matter the circumstances, and no matter the offence.

But I also realize that I can't just “remember” to have this kindness true of my words.  And I can't just try harder.  I've tried to do that, and I fall flat on my face – good intentions and all – every time.  This  is something that only God can do through me.  I am so thankful that He has already provided the victory for me to conquer my unkind words.  All I have to do is choose to walk in it.  He can take my flesh-filled attitudes and words and transform them into a sweet savour.
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I have been asking the Lord to remind me to use kindness when I speak.  To help me remember, I created a printable of Proverbs 31:26.  It hangs on the center cupboard in my kitchen – a place where I spend a good portion of my time each day.  I look up and I reminded to have the law of kindness in my tongue.
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Our Week in Review

A few of the happenings around here this past week:

Daddy was off work Monday, and we enjoyed spending some extra time with him. J. is becoming pretty good at smacking balls — we're thinking it's time to upgrade him to the real deal!

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I let E. feed K. again. They love it and it keeps them occupied while I'm making dinner. It's a mess, but it sure is cute!

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I made a bittersweet discovery yesterday. We have a plum tree that I never knew about! It's way in the back mixed in with a bunch of other scraggly trees. The plums are small, but they are sweet. It's too bad I discovered it when there were only 2 plums left on the tree. Hopefully I'll remember next year that's it's back there!
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My mom and I took the kids to yard sales this morning, and it was an absolute waste of time! We found nothing, and I got everybody up early for nothing. The positive to that? They're all taking good naps!

 

If you want to see more behind-the-scenes life at our house, you can follow me on Instagram.

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25 Ways To Have Fun as a Family In Your Backyard

Disclosure: This is a sponsored post; I am a Kmart blogger, although all opinions are my own. #KMartSummerFun

 

This summer you can get outdoors and spend time with your family without having to leave your house.  Here are 25 ways to have fun as a family right in your backyard!  No matter your children's ages, and no matter what toys and equipment you own, there is something for everyone on this list!

25 Ways to Have Fun as a Family In Your Back Yard

 

1. Play on the swing set

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2. Pull your kids in a wagon

3. Have a  Nerf gun war

4. Cool off in a swimming pool – large or small

5. Have a water gun fight – you can use water guns or old squirt bottles you have lying around the house!

6. Enjoy a backyard picnic – we enjoy eating our lunch outside on a blanket or just sitting on the back porch with a treat.

Backyard picnic

Enjoying a smoothie together on the back porch

7. Swing on a porch swing

8. Relax in a hammock

9. Make mud puddles and let your kids play in them

10.  Run through the sprinkler

11. Play Kickball or soccerfamily time outside

12. Play catch with a baseball, football, or Frisbee

13. Teach your child to ride a bike

14. Go on a nature walk – I like to take the kids around to see how many different kinds of flowers, bugs, etc. we can find

15. Make a scavenger hunt for your kids

 

16. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows – when we clean up the yard, we'll burn the branches that have fallen.

17. Set up a tent – Sleep in it or just have fun playing in it during the day.

18. Plant a garden

19. Build a tree house

20. Set up a bird feeder – I especially love watching the hummingbirds!

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(Photo credit to my mom)

21. Jump on a trampoline

22. Draw with sidewalk chalk

23. Exercise together

24. Blow bubbles

25. Lie in the grass and watch the clouds – this was one of my favorite things to do as a kid!

 

What would you add to this list?  Do you have any favorite family activities that you do in your yard?

 

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Free Printable Arithmetic Flashcards

Free Printable Math flashcards - A Beka style

As I gear up for another year of homeschooling, I try to save as much cash as possible.  But flashcards are not something which I feel I can do without.  They are so important for solidifying those arithmetic facts!

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Daily Supplements for the Busy Homemaker

Good supplements to take to help keep you feeling your best

 

We all know that it's ideal to get your nutrition from the food you eat.  But if we're realistic we have to admit that doesn't always happen.  For one thing, much of the food available isn't as nutrient-dense as it could be due to depleted soil.  For another thing, we homemakers are just plain busy!  We don't slow down enough to even eat at all sometimes, much less to eat with intention to help our food digest and be properly absorbed.

But we can't afford to let our bodies live on less-than-stellar nutrition.  Ask me how I know.

These are the things I take every single day to help make sure my body has what it needs to function properly and be energized:

 

Micellized D3 – Vitamin D is so important for keeping the immune system functioning properly!  The best source is from sunlight, but many people are still deficient.  These drops are the easiest for the body to absorb.  It would be good to have your levels checked before you supplement and have a dr. prescribe the right dosage.  I am currently taking 10x the amount suggested on the bottle, but only because that is what the dr. ordered based on my levels!

Garden of Life RAW Probiotics – therapeutic grade probiotics; one of the few brands that arrive refrigerated so that they stay alive!

Garden of Life Cod Liver Oil – Omega-3 fatty acids, Vitamin D, and DHA are crucial nutrients to my health, especially when breastfeeding.  Taking a spoonful of this everyday ensures I get what I need.

Liquid Chlorophyll – provides magnesium and helps…ahem…keep you “regular”.  I used to buy the NOW brand, but I don’t see it on their site right now.

Vitamins – I can tell a huge difference in my energy level if I don’t take my vitamins.  These are an organic, whole-foods (non-synthetic) vitamin and herb blend.  I will probably always take the prenatals, pregnant or not.  I've found a good product, so I think I'll stick with it!

 

All of these items except for the Vitamin D I purchase through Vitacost as they  usually have the lowest price.  You can also get a coupon for $10 off a $30 purchase if you go through my referral link.

 

Find more of my favorite products to purchase from Vitacost here.