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5 Reasons to Take a Marriage Retreat (And Where to Take It!)

“I'm just so tired!”

“I can't even think with all the kid-noise and clutter!”

“We haven't had a date in months!  We don't talk about anything other than what's on the to-do list!”

If you're feeling burnt out and disconnected from your spouse due to the busyness of life and the exhaustion of kids, it's time to take a marriage retreat!

There are 5 great reasons to take a marriage retreat that I can think of, though I'm sure there are more.

 

1. Time to pray together.

Hopefully you're already praying together with your spouse, at least before you go to bed at night.  But I know from experience that when you're both completely exhausted, it can be hard to think coherently to spend a lot of time in prayer.  Usually by the time the kids are asleep and the lights are turned out, one or both of you is already halfway asleep!

When you get away on a marriage retreat, you'll have plenty of time to spend time in prayer together without waiting until you're both half asleep at night.

What a blessing to come before the Lord together and lay the burdens of your family at his feet!

 

My husband and I were recently blessed to spend several nights away at the Appleview River Resort in Sevierville, Tennessee.  Let me tell you, if you need some quiet time away, you should consider booking a few nights there.

A private condo was just the thing we needed to reconnect with each other and have some quality time to spend with the Lord as a couple.

 

It was all the more special to be there, knowing that the owners were outspoken Christians.  All of their material – brochures, email confirmations, guest information in the cabin, even their text message letting us know our unit was ready for check-in – took every opportunity to tell of their love for the Lord Jesus Christ and of their desire to use their property for his glory.

 

 

 

2.  Time to sleep.

When all the responsibilities at home are weighing you down, it's good to get away and just REST.  You don't need to go, go, go during your time away.  Take advantage of a nice place to stay and just hang out and sleep as long as you need to!  Getting some good rest will do wonders for a marriage.  Not only will it help refresh your spirit and give you a more pleasant outlook on life, it will give you a little more energy for physical intimacy with your spouse too.

I thought the bed at Appleview River Resort was super comfortable!  My husband didn't like it quite as much as I did, but he still slept comfortably.  It was either a memory foam mattress or else it had a memory foam topper.  Either way, I slept long and hard all 3 nights we stayed there!

 

 

 

Of course, maybe I was sleeping so well because I got to soak in this amazing tub every night!  It was so deep, and the water was so hot…oh I'm longing to go back just thinking about it.  My dream house has a tub like this!

3. Time to just be together.

It's nice to be able to just be with your spouse and enjoy them for who they are, with no expectations getting in your way.  No thoughts of household responsibilities can crowd in and ruin your time together.  Getting away lets you just be best friends with your spouse while leaving the cares of life behind for a while!

When we went to Sevierville, we spent time taking walks together, hiking, eating together, and shopping at a leisurely pace.

We didn't have to go far to enjoy a quiet stroll together.  Our condo at Appleview River Resort overlooked a lovely river walk, and we could go right outside and enjoy it any time we wanted to!

 

 

We also enjoyed quiet meals out on the balcony.

 

One day we went to Foxfire Mountain adventure park and took a hike through the property.  It was a beautiful hike, just difficult enough to be good exercise, but not so difficult that it was miserable.  We walked across America's longest swinging bridge and hiked up to a refreshing waterfall.  You can see a video of our day there below:

 

 

We also went out to breakfast a couple times!  We NEVER get to do that!  (It's kind of hard to get babysitters in the morning, you know?)

One morning we ate at the Applewood Farmhouse Restaurant.  It was right by our condo, and 2 complimentary meals came with the our room.  This is such a nice place to eat.  It's such a cozy environment, and the food is good too.  Applewood is definitely on our “must take a return visit” list!

 

Another morning we ate at Flapjacks Pancake Cabin.  My husband is still talking about the food he ate there two weeks later.  “Any time we are back in that area, we are eating there.  No if's, and's, or but's about it.  That is the best breakfast I have ever had.”  I'll have to agree with him that it was quite good.  I was super excited that they serve gluten free pancakes too!  The helpings were generous enough too that we had enough left over for breakfast the next day.  I highly recommend it!

 

 

We spent one evening walking around the Tanger Outlets, holding hands, browsing the stores.  It was nice to shop just for the sake of shopping and not have to worry about keeping track of kids or taking them potty.

There was a lot of evidence throughout the city of Sevierville of the respect they show for our veterans.  I thought that was really great.

 

My husband needed a new pair of work shoes.  He found a fantastic deal on some at the outlets.

 

4. Time to Plan

No matter your circumstances, you and your spouse no doubt have things you hope to accomplish, things that need to be done around the house, parenting and family goals you'd like to meet, etc.  The biggest obstacle we've found to meeting those goals is just finding the time to sit down an plan out how to get from point A to point B.

If you have family projects that are needing to happen or if you just want to re-evaluate how you're doing on your marriage or parenting, you need to take a marriage retreat and spend some time talking and planning together!

Here we are at our condo, getting a nice dinner prepared so we could have a planning session over dinner.

 

 

 

5. Time to have fun!

 

When is the last time you did something fun together?  When you go on a marriage retreat, you'll have all the time you need just to laugh and have fun!  There is something about having fun that is good for both the soul and the body!  (“A merry heart doeth good like a medicine.”)  Plan some good old fashioned fun into your marriage retreat and it will benefit you both!

We went out to Ripley's Old MacDonald's Farm mini golf one evening and had a blast trying to beat each other!  (I won't say who won, but it wasn't me. 🙂 )  We laughed when I knocked the ball completely off of the course we were on.  We laughed at how seriously my husband took his shots, measuring the exact trajectory and speed he would need.  He cheered for me when I followed his suggestions and got a hole in one.  It was just plain fun.

 

One day we drove around looking for the cabin we had stayed in on our honeymoon, which was near Sevierville.  We had no clue which road it was on, but we had a vague idea, so we went hunting for it.  We never did find it, but we had a ton of fun getting lost in the mountains together, and we ended up being rewarded with a beautiful view!

 

 

If you're feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, and disconnected from your spouse, I encourage you to make the effort to get away and spend some time with your spouse praying, resting, playing, planning, and spending quality time together.

As you can see from the getaway we took, Sevierville, Tennessee is a fantastic place to do that.  It offers the quiet you need to recharge right along with plenty of options for having fun together.  I hope you'll consider investing in a trip for the health of your marriage!

 

Many thanks to the city of Sevierville as well as the places mentioned in this post for providing complimentary lodging and meals to facilitate this article!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How to Plan a Couples Getaway in Gatlinburg, Tennessee

Last week my husband and I had the opportunity to go to Gatlinburg, Tennessee and spend some time together kid-free.  It was so restful, and we enjoyed having the opportunity to talk and get to know one another as best friends again rather than just a parenting team.

Gatlinburg is such a great location for anyone living in the southeast when you need an easily accessible place for a quick getaway, so I thought I would share all about our trip to give you some ideas for spending your time there!

 

How to plan a couples getaway in Gatlinburg, Tennessee

 

Where to stay

We were blessed by the kind folks at Gatlinburg Falls Resort, who were willing to partner with us by providing a place to stay so that I could tell you all about it!  We actually stayed there last year with our kids and had a positive experience, so I'm glad we were able to go back again!

Would you like to take a tour of our cabin?  Take a peek inside in the video below!

Customer service

We arrived in Gatlinburg well before check-in time, so I called the office to see if there was any possibility of checking in early.  The girl at the front desk was super nice and helpful.  She put our cabin in as priority to be cleaned so that it would be one of the first ones done.  Their policy says that check-in time begins at 4 pm, and that each cabin may not actually be ready right away since they have so many cabins to prepare for guests.  Ours was one of the first ones done and we were able to get in right at 4:00.  I felt like we were rushing them because my husband had a migraine and I was hoping he could go lie down.  While we sat around in the office, the clerk contacted the crew several times to see if they were done yet.

As soon as we got into the cabin, we got a knock at the door from a maintenance man.  Evidently we had rushed them too much and there were a couple more jobs that needed to be taken care of.  The hot tub needed to be checked, the beds did not have their comforters on them yet, and a broken towel bar needed to be re-hung in the bathroom.  He was very apologetic and did his best to work without disturbing us.

 

Cleanliness

Everything in the cabin was very clean.  I get grossed out easily, so it was nice to be able to enjoy my stay without feeling like I couldn't touch anything.

 

Amenities

We had everything we needed for an enjoyable stay – TV's, internet, washer and dryer, dishwasher, jetted showers, game room, porch with rocking chairs, and of course, no relaxing getaway could possibly be complete without a hot tub!

 

Price

I've checked out the prices on the website for Gatlinburg Falls Resort several times, and I think they are quite reasonable.  If you follow them on social media, you'll find that they often have last-minute 50% off specials, which is a fabulous deal!  Follow them here: Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

 

 

What to do

We spent a good portion of our time just hanging out at the cabin, relaxing in the hot tub, cooking nice meals together, and catching up on about 5 years worth of sleep. 🙂

Elkmont

I was excited to find out that the Elkmont fireflies would still be in season while we were there.  There is an area about 7 miles from our cabin where there are thousands of fireflies.  They all light up at the same time and then they all go dark at the same time.  It is a spectacular show and Elkmont is only one of 2 places in the world where this happens, from what I understand.  We hiked a good ways up the Little River Trail right before dark and then just sat in the woods until dark.  Once it got dark the show began, and it was fantastic!  We tried to video, but with our unprofessional equipment, the video did not turn out.  However, here is a professional video of the experience.  Since we went a week after the predicted “peak season”, there were only a few people out on the trail, but the show was still good!

 

Great Smoky Mountains National Park

If you like to get out in nature and enjoy a hike or just drive through the beautiful scenery, you're only minutes away from doing so when you stay at Gatlinburg Falls Resort.  Here is a directory of hikes rated by how easy or hard they are.  (I had to stick to the easy ones! 🙂 )

 

Downtown Gatlinburg

We took our kids last year, and it was nothing short of stressful!  There were so many people, and it was hard to keep track of all the kids in the crowd.  Going as a couple was so much more fun!  We leisurely browsed all the gift shops and just enjoyed each other's company.  This year, instead of spending money on parking, we took the Gatlinburg Trolley.  We parked for free at city hall, which was just down the hill from our cabin.  Then we rode the Trolley into downtown for the whopping cost of 50 cents each.  (Parking downtown is around $8 – $10, so we saved ourselves a heap of money, plus we got the pleasant experience of riding the trolley.)

 

Hillbilly Golf

If you like to play miniature golf, go to Hillbilly Golf!  We've always looked at it when we have gone to Gatlinburg, but this trip was the first time we have gone. We will be back!  Not only was it a unique experience playing mini golf on the side of a mountain, the course itself was challenging, which always makes it more fun!  The owners were super friendly too!

There we are in the middle seat:

They pull you up the mountain in this little car and then you play golf on the side of the mountain!

 

 

Cades Cove

No trip to Gatlinburg would be complete without heading over to Cades Cove.  Cades Cove is an 11 mile loop that you drive around.  You're almost guaranteed to see wildlife along the way.  Stop at the little pavilion right before you enter the loop road and pay a dollar for the little map/guide thingy.  There are houses and churches spread throughout the cove, and knowing the history of them makes the drive more interesting.  You can also get out and walk around the buildings, and there are some short hikes you can take as well.

Wild horses at Cades Cove

 

Deer at Cades Cove

 

 

Can you spot the bear?

 

If you're not into driving around bumper to bumper with dozens of other cars, and long for a bit of peace and quiet, you can pull off Rich Mountain Road about a third of the way through the cove.  Be sure that's what you want to do since it's a one way road and you won't be able to re-enter the cove.  Instead you'll travel a windy 12 mile gravel road up to the top of the mountain and wind back down again where you come out in Townsend, TN.  There's not much of a view other than the forest and the switchbacks below you as you make your way up the mountain.  But you'll have the pleasure of being alone, and you'll get to enjoy two beautiful overlooks.

There's a church in the valley by the wildwood…

 

Sunset over Cades Cove

 

 

What to eat

The benefit of staying in a cabin is that you have a kitchen.  By eating most of our meals at the cabin, we save a lot of money on food. We can eat a lot healthier than we would if we were eating out too, which makes us feel better, which means our getaway is more enjoyable!  Plus, my husband and I enjoy cooking nice meals together when we are by ourselves.  There's something relaxing about cooking when you don't have a bunch of people to clean up after!  But of course, it's fun to eat out once in a while too.  Unfortunately, there aren't a lot of healthy options in Gatlinburg when it comes to restaurants.  Here's where we ate:

 

Whole Earth Grocery

This was a little health food store tucked away up on a side street in Gatlinburg.  They have a cafe inside that serves healthy lunch options.  I had a chicken salad sandwich with potato salad.  They serve salads and sandwiches there with potato salad, pasta salad, or organic blue corn chips as the side.  You can grab a bottle of kombucha out of the fridge for a drink if that's your thing. 🙂

 

Good Eats

I did not care for the atmosphere inside of this restaurant.  It seemed like the bar was the main focus, which we didn't even realize until after we ate and went inside to pay.  They had tables outside, and we enjoyed people-watching while we ate. 🙂  The food was amazing!  My husband had a reuben sandwich, and I had a burger.  It was huge!

 

 

The first words my husband said when he took a bite of his sandwich were, “Oh wow.”  Since he's not easily impressed, I'd say he enjoyed his sandwich as much as I enjoyed my burger. (Or maybe he was saying “Oh wow” at the sight of me trying to stuff that whole burger into my mouth! 🙂 )

 

Other things to do

You can certainly find much more to do in Gatlinburg than we did.  You can visit the Ripley's Aquarium, go up in the space needle, or ride the skylift to Ober Gatlinburg.  You can visit the arts and crafts district.  You can go ziplining or horseback riding or whitewater rafting.

Whatever types of things you enjoy, they are probably there.  For us, we were more than satisfied with hanging out at the cabin, spending time in the woods, and getting a small dose of the gift shops.

 

If you are in need of a relaxing time away with your spouse, I highly recommend slipping away to Gatlinburg for a few days!  

Don't forget to follow Gatlinburg Falls Resort on social media so you can take advantage of one of their specials!

 

What I’m Learning About Being a Wife from a Vine

Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table. Psalm 128:3

 

Our pastor mentioned that verse in a message last year, which prompted me to study the idea of children being like olive plants.  Boy, did I learn a LOT!  I came up with 12 Lessons About Child Training from an Olive Tree and it has been one of my most popular posts. I love going back and reviewing these things every so often.

 

Fast forward to about a week ago, and I read over that verse again in my daily devotions.

I thought, “Hmm…since there were so many lessons to be learned from the idea of children being like olive trees, I wonder if there are lessons to be learned about the wife being like a fruitful vine?”

I couldn't resist digging into that further, and here's what I found:

what im learning about being a wife

First, I needed to know if there was a specific type of vine the verse was talking about.  I looked up the Hebrew word for vine in that verse and found out that it basically means…vine.

So then I looked up the Hebrew word for fruitful and it basically means…to bear fruit.

 

Okay, so that left me with basically any type of vine that bears fruit.  Take your pick – grapes, watermelon, cantaloupe…it doesn't really matter.

Then I began researching every other instance in the Bible where that same Hebrew word for vine was used, and that's where it got interesting.

I noticed right away that over and over, God was talking to Israel about the fact that when they turned away from God part of their judgment would be for their vines to be destroyed.

I also noticed that when God spoke of his blessing on Israel, he would mention how that their vines would be fruitful.  In fact, in the very verse of which I am talking, God is telling Israel that part of his blessing on them would be for their wives to be as fruitful vines and their children like olive plants.

The verse is speaking of prosperity and blessing upon the children of Israel when they followed the Lord and obeyed his commands.

 

Lesson #1 from the fruitful vine – Am I a blessing to my husband?  When he thinks of me, does it make him thankful for how God has prospered him by giving me to him?  Am I flourishing physically, spiritually, and emotionally so that I am a joy to be around? Or am I dried up and withered?  Yes, my husband has some God-given responsibilities to keep his “vine” well-watered so that it can easily flourish, but how am I responding?  Does my husband see caring for me as a duty or a delight?

 

The concept of “fruitful” also carries with it the idea of bearing children.  God has stated over and over that children are a blessing and a reward. In the verse we are studying, He clearly states that a fruitful wife and the little “olive plants” are part of the blessing he would pour out when his people obediently followed Him.

 

Lesson #2 from the fruitful vine – Children are a blessing; not something to be avoided!  When God states that children are a blessing and a reward, why are so many married couples doing all they can to prevent their blessings from coming?!  I am not an advocate of the so-called “quiverfull” movement, where many families hold to the idea that they are supposed to have as many babies as the wife's body will carry. If a couple feels that the wife is physically worn out, I don't think God intends for her to be a haggard, run-down woman, forcing her body to continue producing “blessing” after “blessing”.  God gave us the knowledge of how babies are made and I believe couples should use that knowledge responsibly, with the understanding and willingness for God to override our personal plans according to his will.
But at the same time, couples do not need to fear the idea of large families.  I'll say it again; children are a blessing; not something to be avoided!

 

Finally – and this goes right along with lesson #2 – in the Bible, vines had a lot to do with lovemaking!  Read Song of Solomon, and you'll find that they made love among the vines.  You'll also find multiple references to body parts being like the fruit of the vine.
Lesson #3 from the fruitful vine – A fruitful wife is a wife who satisfies her husband's physical desires.  Read Song of Solomon to get an idea of the demeanor we wives should display in the bedroom!  We need to be doing as much as we can to take care of our bodies and keep them beautiful for our husbands.  We need to delight him and allow him to delight us.

Are you a fruitful vine?  When your husband thinks of you does he say, “Wow, God sure has prospered me!”?

 

How being a wife is like being a vine | Biblical Marriage Advice from @mbream

 

 

 

 

5 Ways to Encourage Your Husband Today

Is your husband ever stressed, discouraged, or frazzled?  (Of course he is!)  Sometimes we wives get so caught up in the burden of our own responsibilities and concerns that we forget our husband also has his own burdens to carry.  Can I challenge you to build up your husband through your words and actions?  Here are 5 ways to encourage your husband today:

5 Ways to encourage your husband today |Biblical marriage advice from @mbream

 

1. I'm praying for you.

Every husband should have the privilege of knowing his wife is laboring in prayer for him as he faces the pressures of the day.  But don't stop at praying for him…let him know that you are!

 

2. Thank you for…

Show gratitude even for the little things.

 

3. I love it when you…

Don't focus on what you don't like about your husband.  Telling him about the things you like will encourage him to do more of it.

 

4. You do such a great job at…

Husbands love it when their wives pump up their ego a little bit.  Just sayin'.

 

5. I made this/did this/bought this for you.

When's the last time you did something for your husband just because you love him?

 

What are some other ways you can think of to encourage your husband?

 

Other posts you might like:

How to Be Your Husband's Best Friend   Marriage Advice to the Woman in a Great Marriage | Christian Homemaking

5 Ways to be Your Husband’s Best Friend

Best friends.

 

We've all heard that husbands and wives should be best friends.  But how does that actually play out in real life?

You might want to be best friends with your husband but you lack the knowledge to do so.

I talked this post over with my husband before I wrote it because I wanted to be 100% sure that what I was writing was something with which he would agree!

Together we came up with these 5 Ways To Be Your Husband's Best Friend.

 

How to Be Your Husband's Best Friend

 

 

1. Laugh with him.

When you're out with your girlfriends no doubt there is a good deal of laughter that goes on.  You enjoy each other's company and you're naturally going to smile and laugh with each other.

But it goes to a whole deeper level when you're laughing with the one who is also the love of your life.

My husband and I share a million and one inside jokes.  We're always cracking up at what seems to others as random moments.  But we each know without even looking at the other what the other one is thinking.

It's funny.  And it's beautiful.

 

2. Grow in Christ together.

My closest friends throughout the years have been those with whom I share a spiritual bond.  Those with whom I've shared my prayer requests, no matter how big or little.  Those who aren't afraid to give me a spiritual kick in the tail when I'm off track.  Those who challenge and edify me through our conversations.

A husband and wife who want to be the best of friends will also help one another grow in Christ.  They'll pray together.  They'll share with the other what the Lord has been teaching them through their personal quiet time.  They'll ask the other for help when they're having trouble overcoming a certain character flaw.

 

3. Spend time with him.

Quality time together is one of the foundations of friendship, isn't it?

Why then do so many husbands and wives neglect to set aside regular time to date one another – to make time to talk about something other than which bills need to be paid and what time Johnny needs to be at soccer practice?

Do you know your husband's hopes and dreams?  Have you spent enough time with him to find out?

I get that life is busy, but you truly have time for what you make time for.  Make time for your husband.  Get creative.  (Here are 25 Stay-at-home Date Night Ideas if you need some help, then scroll down for a super-fun date night giveaway!)

4. Bear his burdens.

I'm not talking about major tragedies that couples might face.  Of course you're going to bear that burden with him. I'm talking about the little things.

When your husband comes home from work frustrated because he didn't have a productive day, give him a shoulder rub and tell him you're sorry.  Don't roll your eyes and say “Oh yeah?  Well let me tell you about my day!”

5. Enjoy physical touch

Physical intimacy in the bedroom should be just that – intimate.  Rather than succumbing to the temptation to make it a purely physical act, strive to connect on an emotional and even spiritual level.

Little touches throughout the day also tell the other person, “I enjoy being around you.  You're special to me.  You're my best friend and there's no one I'd rather be with right now.”

 

What other ways can you think of to be your husband's best friend?

 


For some awesome, inspirational reading, I recommend the following books:

100 Ways to Love Your Husband: A Life-Long Journey of Learning to Love (by Lisa Jacobson)

100 Ways to Love Your Husband

Marriage Advice to the Woman in a Good Marriage

I've not written a whole lot about marriage here.  Most — not all, but most — of my posts are borne out of whatever I'm personally reflecting on at the moment.  A lot of that has to do with the struggles of motherhood. That is something that is immensely more difficult than I ever imagined!

But marriage has never been all that difficult.  We're not perfect, but it's not something that my husband and I struggle with.  He's a good man!  We always seem to be on the same wavelength, so arguments…I mean, disagreements…are not something that frequently occurs.  It's pretty smooth sailing between the two of us most of the time, therefore I've never felt like I had a ton of stuff to write about from personal experience.

But yesterday I realized I had an important message to share.  To myself first of all, then to all the other ladies who are living in a non-difficult marriage.

So here it is: Marriage Advice to the Woman In a Good Marriage

Marriage Advice to the Woman in a Great Marriage | Christian Homemaking

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“Why is he so grouchy?” I wondered.  “He's usually only grouchy when he has a headache, and I don't think he does today.”

 

I began to ponder what the problem could be.  Before too long the light bulb went off.  Stress!  My husband is under a lot of stress!  And what have I been doing to help him?  Pretty much nothing.

 

When you're married to a good man, it becomes easy to start expecting him to be a good man.  I mean, that's just what he does. He helps me with the laundry, speaks tenderly and lovingly to me (and tries to understand my crazy womanly ways!), and plays with the kids.  He works hard to provide for his family, keeps things repaired around the house, and serves at church in whatever ways he can.

 

He does all of these things faithfully.  He's so good to me and the children; I couldn't ask for a better man!

 

But I've taken it for granted.

I haven't needed “marriage advice” because we don't argue.  We try to serve one another in the home.  We understand each other.

But there are some things I've neglected to do this for this wonderful man of mine.

 

1. Pray for him faithfully.

It took some stress in his life for me to realize that I've not been praying for my husband like I should.  But my husband needs God's power and protection on his life when times are tough and when the path is smooth.  I shouldn't have waited until he was under pressure to pray for him.  I should be praying more than just “help my husband to have a good day”.  I should be fervently praying.  Satan wants to destroy the lives of God's children, and that includes my husband.  (One of my contributors came up with a printable prayer calendar for your husband if you'd like to use it for some ideas of specific things to pray.)

 

2. Thank him.

It's easy to start taking for granted all the things my husband does.  But I don't like to be taken for granted.  Sure, it's my job to clean the house, make the meals, and take care of the kids all day.  But that doesn't mean it's not hard work.  And I sure do like it when my husband thanks me for supper and gives me some recognition for the hard work I've done that day.  I'm sure some appreciation shown to my husband for the hard work he does for our family would be an encouragement to him too.

 

3. Encourage him.

Words of appreciation would be encouragement in and of themselves, but I can also let him know I'm praying for him, jot down words or verses of encouragement, and be excited for him when he has a great day at work.  (I can also be ready with a shoulder massage and sympathetic ear when he's not had such a great day.)

 

4. Help him.

What can I do to take some of the load off his shoulders?  Is there a responsibility around the house that I'm capable of taking care of?  Sometimes I can't think of anything to do, so I simply ask him, “Is there anything I can do for you tomorrow?”  Often he will have something that he's happy for me to take care of that I didn't even know he needed to do.  Sometimes it's an errand to run, sometimes a bill to pay — little annoying things that hang over his head, especially when he's super busy at work and feeling the pressure of getting it all done while still having time to spend with his family.

 

Dear friend, even if you have a great marriage, there is always room for improvement!  What can you do for your husband today?